Good Evening My Dear Folks!!
It's weekend finally, and we have almost plans of all he hours of next two days...trip or oversleeping or shopping...but wait a minute...are we all going?? i mean you, your wife and kids....oh ho yeah the kids...lets drop the plan...they will bother us in the plan....ha ha ha..i know hat you all must be thinking!! We many times drop our plans due to our cranky kids...
So lets today discuss about our issues, which are mainly due to our issues(kids)....he he he..
So here is me when my friends ask how i am....
Yesterday was a romantic tryst with life partners and today it turned into a horror movie just at the mention of kids...ha ha ha ...it is the most scared phase of everyone's life...
Seriously if i say, it was so good when we were two...and now we cant sleep, cant work, cant go for movie...uuufff...initial years of parenting. We pray to god, that someone would bail us out for a few hours.
These generation kids are so smart with alpha energies and high Intelligence and emotional quotient, it seems, God updated their software and we are left like slower versions...ha ha ha.
They have their opinions and decisions right from their tender age and they clearly stand out for what they want, while we in the past would have only two options, either this or nothing. With the advancement of technologies, no doubt the generation born is also at par of intelligence to drive new innovations. It seems they are just more alert about everything around.
On the funny part, we keep arranging, they keep on disturbing, we keep explaining, they keep on misbehaving..and this always happens that we have so many chapters of social embarrassments, sleepless nights, arguments etc. But this phenomenon is so normal and it is called generation gap. It is believed that the harmony that we try to set up at home, between the two generations is never meant to be set and it is to be left the way it is, that is right path. We all try to set up everything and that is why we feel stress and friction.
This is how i feel when my kid does not eat his food. The stress.
Feeling too complex to understand? Let me put it in simple ways, the child likes to spread his toys all around , because it believes that it is his space and we like everything arranged and clean so we scold the child. But the child will still not listen and do the same thing again, because the child is not meant to understand because it does not have that understanding, simple. It simply does not understand what we instruct. So its better to leave the space of the relation between the two generations in dis-organised form, as it is. So next time when you trip over a toy of your child, don't be angry, just accept and chill, we all had also irritated the hell out our parents in our days, so its karma answering us...ha ha ha.
For example, I told my child, "I'm going to take you to the garden to play, get ready, and let's go!" He said, "All right, you can join your friends as soon as we get downstairs because my gang is waiting." I was so taken aback and speechless by this response that I couldn't decide whether to laugh or cry...:P ha ha ha...
In another instance, he asked me to call his friend to call him home to come over to play at our house. As the time was awkward, i told my son that he might be sleeping and we should not be disturbing him. He said to me, "Mom, why do feel so shy, its ok, go ahead and call!!" and i was...bursting in laughter...ha ha ha.
But it is rightly said, "A child is the father of a man, and we leran so much from them, as they learn from us".
So to point out, the childhood of our issues(kids)...should be taken as their innocence and that is why we should not be compelling them to be living at our terms. Of course the discipline has to be thought but don't make them a slave. Let their creativity and imagination grow so they can blossom in their interests. They are the angels of God, gifted to us. Also some kids may be real monsters to manage..ha ha ha ...just kidding but they are pure souls who should be treated only with love and care, of course sometimes scolding too, but very little. At least they are not making faces on our passports or crash bombing our zoom meetings with hunger or potty demands..ha ha ha. God be with all who are working from home.
So nourish the bond while they are with you, one day these sparrows will fly away chasing their dreams, than at that time, only these memories will be with you.
If you behaved harsh with your child than give love, if you felt your child misbehaved than make them understand, do not be rigid, kids are actually never meant to listen. So chill and Enjoy.
Have a good sleep or treat or dessert..once your child goes to sleep...:D...Adios.
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