Dear Readers Good Eve!
I wish all of you must have enjoyed my yesterday's Friendship story...and must have surely sunken in the memories of your pals!
Now let us move ahead 1 step closer in the story, lets talk out about our co-traveler...yes our Bae, spouse, better half, whatever you like to call them, with whom we all have embarked on this ipsy pipsy, scratchy, slippy journey of life.....
Yes, Our Hard working Bae....
Today, I write this post only about Baes....Wives and husbands....
This post also stands relatable to those who are in to-be relations or will soon be committed....
To be honest we all share weird relation with our bae....you accept or you do not it is true, we mostly argue and fight, but we do not eat food without each other, we hide things at time, but we do not miss to puke our entire day out when we meet at evening, we bitch each other, but we will not plan things without each other...ha ha ha...i know you all are smiling, and some of the you are already laughing....:D
We all are continuously striving to reach balance, adjust and by that time we all get aged...fighting, arguing...but ultimately we love and accept each other...The power of this union called marriage is so well built, but only if you believe...We only have to offer the space and understanding enough to the later to not suffocate....mainly this gets achieved once you have crossed 10 year anniversary...ha ha ha...just kidding...Fortunately i am married to a wonderful amazing person....and I am grateful!!
Sometimes, due to circumstances, we may loose hope in our relation and drift away, causing more trouble and ending up in two isolated people or in worst case, a split. There may genuine reasons at each sides but do you remember, our final goal? Yes, the one we previously discussed in our geometry and chemistry post......:)
Do not forget, the final goal is of course to make a beautiful geometrical relation with your spouses and to have the best balanced chemistry...of course each one of you are the best judge in your own marriage/relation. We must accept each other with their ideologies, patterns, habits and differences, and that is why we are in this union, right?
Harville Hendrix, one of the most famous Marriage and relationship expert quoted, "Marriage, ultimately, is the practice of becoming passionate friends"
As John Gray said, "When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom."
To conclude, it is not always necessary that you may always have your life partner in agreement or may be absent in some of your plans, the objective is to grow together and expand. After all fights and arguments are important to enjoy the love, so support the latter in most possible ways you can, understand and respect, choose to give space instead of commanding priorities....return silence when one choose to vent out....these all are important life lessons our elders have always told us....remember...we eventually forget!!
So today, all of you promise me, to celebrate this one beautiful bonding of your life...give a hug, gift a rose...or if nothing just sit besides, hold the hand and give a smile...and i promise you all, the balance will be restored!!
A small gift for you all, enjoy my favorite song from Silsila movie...!
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