Success, Defeat and The Take-away.

Hello My Wonderful Folks !

Once again, I extend a warm welcome to all of you in your own place. Your place for restoration or introspection, as you would like to be.

The cycle of life continues, and as we age through the predetermined number of breaths that God has given us, we serve as fuel for the flames. The days and months area already numbered, your time and performance limited. The only thing that we have in control is the liberty to choose the defeat or success.

This would be my picture, when i fail at something. 

Like sending an email without an attachment when it mentions PFA....Lol..failing magically..he he he!!

Now you all must be thinking, why i am so low today? Well, trust me, I am not. Let me show you the bigger picture.

We all have heard the saying, "Life is what we choose."  Success and defeat,  both have their takeaways. For success you enjoy the victory and for defeat you enjoy the lesson learnt., again it depends on the mindset one has. If you win, its definitely victory but if you loose than it should and must only be taken as lesson learnt.

Much has been quoted around about being positive about the defeats and be consistent about the success. People follow your format if you succeed, and you follow people if you fail. Harsh fact.

Eric Butterworth once said, "Don't go through life, Grow through life!"

Now, lets come to terms to reality, the cycle of up and down will continue forever. The question lies unanswered as always, "What do we gain?".  Courage? Lesson? Strength? If the answer says a big Yes!, than you are really winning even if you are defeated.

The crux of the wheel of life lies in the mindset you have and the life choices that you make. You may anyway reach your destination you want to reach one day, but how you encompassed your journey will actually be the deciding factor for your happiness.

Be it relations or business, job or hobby, it is very important to never give up until you achieve your goal.  If it is in your head and heart you will get it, but you will only really make your path harmonious if you really choose, lesson learnt over defeat and modesty over success. This not only reflects your internal core strength but also your character as a human.

This are my views over takeaways of success or defeat. 

I welcome your views on what you do when you succeed, and what you learn when you face defeat.

Share your life lessons with me in comment box below, we all can learn together. We are in it, together!

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Good Bye Buddies! Stay Safe and Healthy!